Today, 27.01.2025, marks the official day of my move to Switzerland. The morning started with a cozy breakfast with my girlfriend, C, before we packed up everything and headed to Milan’s train station. At 12:43 PM, we boarded the train to Lugano, where we’ve booked a hotel for the next two weeks, until 10.02.2025. The uncertainty of what lies ahead is both exciting and a little daunting—I’m not sure what to expect or if I’ll land a job anytime soon. For now, though, the plan is simple: stay put, focus on sending out CVs, and embrace whatever comes next.

First week from 27.01.2025 to 03.02.25

( Stayed at: Guesthouse Lugano ) 

( out bedroom for one month, Lugano ) 

Monday we took the train from Milano Centrale to Paradiso. The journey was smooth, and I arrived in Paradiso in the afternoon. The rest of the day was spent relaxing and enjoying the peaceful atmosphere of the town. Tuesday I visited Migros, the well-known Swiss supermarket chain, to do some shopping. I picked up groceries for the week and spent some time exploring the store’s offerings, including fresh produce and local specialties. The rest of the day was relatively calm, allowing me to catch up on errands and sending Cv during afternoon and then before night I went to run by the lake. Wednesday I had an interview with a consulting firm. It was an exciting opportunity, and the interview focused on my skills and experience related to the consulting industry. I felt confident during the discussion, and I was hopeful about the outcome. In the afternoon, I spent some time reflecting on the interview and preparing for future opportunities. Thursday afternoon I did the interview at Blitz a language school. Friday morning I did an interview to cover a maternity leave in a dairy company and spent the rest of the noon sending Cv and we went out looking to subscribe to a gym. Saturday I spent time with Perla and Vincenzo, members of my circle, catching up and enjoying each other’s company. In the evening, I went to the gym for a workout. It was a great way to unwind after a busy week. Sunday I woke up with a headache, probably from the week’s activities and lack of sleep. Despite feeling under the weather, I went to the gym in the evening to try and clear my head and feel better. The workout helped me recover a bit, and I was ready to start the new week.

Second week from 03.02.25 to 10.02.25

( Stayed at: Guesthouse Lugano ) 

( Cancello sul lago di Lugano ) 

Monday I started the day with a morning session at the gym, followed by a visit to Lidl for some grocery shopping. Afterward, I went back home and spent some time sending out my CV to potential employers. Tuesday Another morning workout at the gym to stay on track with my fitness routine. Later, I spent same time doing an interview for an unpaid internship (stage). Wednesday I woke up early and went straight to the gym for my morning workout. In the afternoon, at 3 pm, I had an appointment for my eyelash extension session. It was a relaxing treat after a busy start to the week. Thursday I woke up early and headed to the gym to start the day with some exercise. After the workout, I went to Denner to do some grocery shopping. In the afternoon, I had an online interview for a company located in Milan, which went well and gave me a good sense of the opportunity. After the interview, I went with Carmel and we took some photos around the lake, enjoying the beautiful scenery and capturing some memories. Friday I woke up early, got ready, and took the bus and train to Mendrisio with Carmel. We went to Fox Town to meet Perla and to hand out some CVs at the outlet stores. It was a productive trip, and we made the most of the time. Afterward, we went back to our hotel in Paradiso for a relaxing lunch together and then during dinner we watched the two pope’s. Saturday I decided to stay home for the entire day and take it easy. It was a perfect opportunity to chill, relax, and unwind after a busy week and maybe fighting with Carmel. Sunday the day started off with rainy weather, which made it a bit harder to get motivated, but I still decided to head to the gym in the morning for a workout. The session helped me clear my mind and start the day with energy. Afterward, I spent some time sending out my CV to potential employers, trying to get ahead in my job search for the week.

Third week from 10.02.25 to 17.10.25 

( Stayed at: Guesthouse Lugano ) 

( Around Bellinzona, Ticino ) 

Monday I started the day with a session at the gym to get energized for the day ahead. After that, we headed to the notary to take care of Carmel’s paperwork. Once we finished, we went back home for a nice lunch. In the afternoon, we returned to the notary to pick up the documents, making sure everything was in order. Tuesday we caught the train early in the morning to head to Bellinzona. The purpose of the trip was to visit the Cancelleria dello Stato to complete some important paperwork for Carmel. After wrapping up that task, we headed back home for lunch. In the afternoon, at 2 pm, I went to Bioggio for an interview. Later in the day, we made our way to the gym for a workout to finish the day on a positive note. Wednesday I woke up early and took the train to Milan. Upon arriving, we started our day by visiting the inside of the iconic Duomo. We spent some time admiring the stunning architecture and the breathtaking views from the terrace. Afterward, we headed to the Australian Consulate for a brief visit. Then, we went shopping at H&M, where I picked up a few items. For lunch, we ate at Casa Sorbillo in San Babila, a well-known spot for delicious pizza. Afterward, we took a stroll down Via della Spiga, the famous luxury shopping street, just soaking in the atmosphere. In the afternoon, we caught a bus to Chinatown, where I had an interview scheduled at 4 p.m. The interview went well, and afterwards, we had some free time. We decided to visit Convento di Santa Maria delle Grazie, hoping to see The Last Supper by Leonardo da Vinci, but sadly, the tickets were sold out, and we couldn’t get in. So, we made our way back to the main train station and caught the train back to Lugano, reflecting on a busy but eventful day in Milan. Thursday I started the day with an early session at the gym, which felt great. After that, I had an online interview with an agency at 10 a.m. It was a good conversation, and I felt positive about it. For the rest of the day, I stayed home, focusing on sending out my CVs to potential employers. I spent the afternoon researching job opportunities and working on my applications, hoping to hear back soon. Friday The morning began with my usual gym routine. Afterward, I went to Denner to buy some flowers for Carmel, as I wanted to surprise her with a thoughtful gesture. She was kind enough to gift me a beautiful necklace and bracelet in return, which I really appreciated. At 11:30 a.m., I had an online interview, which went well and lasted for about an hour. After that, I had a relaxing lunch at home before heading to Como. At 3 p.m., we caught the train to the beautiful lakeside city. Once in Como, we took a leisurely walk around the town, enjoying the scenery and the beautiful rings displayed in some of the local shops. We then stopped at Bar Krudo for an aperitif before heading to Bar Touring for an apericena, a mix of appetizers and drinks that was perfect for the afternoon. In the evening, we treated ourselves to a romantic dinner at Bistrot Muralto for San Valentino. The atmosphere was lovely, and the meal was delicious. Afterward, we rushed back to the train station and caught the train back to Lugano, feeling content after a beautiful day in Como. Saturday I spent the entire day at home, taking it easy. I didn’t go to the gym, and instead, Carmel and I had some tense moments, fighting over various things, which made the day a bit stressful. Still, we also had some moments to chill and reflect on everything. Sunday I started the day with a session at the gym, which helped me clear my head after a challenging Saturday. Later, I spent some time at home, organizing my photos and memories from the past week. In the evening, I relaxed by watching La Dolce Villa, a classic film, while enjoying a quiet dinner.

Fourth week from 17.02 to 24.02.25 

( Stayed at: Guesthouse Lugano ) 

( Me and Carmel at home, Lugano ) 

Monday we went to the gym for a morning workout, followed by a trip to the grocery store to get everything I needed for the week. Afterward, I spent some time sending out my CV to various companies. Later, I went back to the gym for a second workout session to focus on cardio and stretching. In the evening, we had dinner while watching Suburra, an Italian crime series, to unwind after a productive day. Tuesday we traveled to Milan in the morning for an appointment at the Australian Consulate at 10 AM to get Carmel’s nulla osta (certificate of no impediment). Afterward, we went to Princi for breakfast. While there, I worked on filling out paperwork for the municipio to find a location near Como where we could get married. We had lunch at Kyo Sushi, then walked back to the train station and took the train to Como where we went to the questura to sort of the marriage paper but it was busy so we just took the train back to Lugano to go back home. Wednesday we up early and went to the gym for a workout session. Afterward, I took the funicular to the train station and caught the train to Como. In Como, I visited the Prefettura for some official paperwork. After that, we grabbed a slice of pizza before heading to the Questura (police station) for more paperwork and then to the Patronato to gather information on the required documents for getting married. By midday, we were back in Lugano. I had pasta for lunch while watching Suburra, then spent the rest of the afternoon applying for more jobs, doing laundry, and having dinner. The evening was spent relaxing. Thursday we spent the morning at home before taking the train to Milan for a 5 PM interview. Afterward, we went shopping at Decathlon and Foot Locker, picking up some items we needed. We had dinner at Mercato Centrale in Milan’s Central Station, enjoying a variety of food specially a cotoletta. Later, we took the train back to Lugano. Friday we went to the gym in the morning, followed by a 10:30 AM appointment at the Patronato CAF in Como. Afterward, we had breakfast at Caffè e Caffè in Como before returning to Lugano. The rest of the day was spent sending out more CVs for job applications. Saturday started the day with a morning gym session, then spent the rest of the day at home sending out CVs to various companies. Sunday we went to the gym in the morning for a workout session. Did groceries and afterwards we chilled at home while continuing to send out CVs. Later, we watched a few episodes of Suburra before heading to the gym again in the evening for a light workout.

Last days in Lugano at Guesthouse 

( Swiss chocolate, Lugano ) 

Monday spent the morning at home, sending out CVs and emails. Around noon, I went to a nearby agency where the guy gave me more information and helped me look for a job at Swiss Work. We returned home in the evening, had dinner, and relaxed while watching Suburra. Tuesday we started the day with a gym session in the morning. Had lunch at home, then went back to the gym in the evening for another workout. Afterward, we had dinner while watching Suburra. Wednesday we went to the gym in the morning, then caught the 10 AM train to Como to visit the Prefettura to collect some important papers. Afterward, I sat had a nail appointment at Cinderella Nails. Had breakfast at Il Pane di Tina Beretta, a local bakery, before catching the train back to Lugano. Once home, we had lunch and spent the afternoon packing. During dinner, we watched Toscana. And the morning after we headed to Geneva.